The Sex Diaries #3: How to Get What You Like During Sex

Often, we have sexual wants and needs that go unfulfilled due to us shying away from expressing them

The Sex Diaries #3: How to Get What You Like During Sex
There are effective ways to get what you like during sex. Photo by Becca Tapert on Unsplash

Hello and welcome to the 3rd installment of our series ‘The Sex Diaries’. In this episode we’ll talk about how to get what you like during sex.

Often, we have sexual wants and needs that go unfulfilled due to us shying away from expressing them, possibly out of a fear that our partners will view us in a certain light, or by fearing that we’ll embarrass ourselves. However, there’s a way to get what you like during sex, and here’s how.


💡 This post covers themes of a sexual nature and is intended for mature audiences.


Get Super Freaky

Sometimes, the best way to get what you like during sex is to go into ‘freaky frenzy’, a sexual mode where anything goes. It is best not to announce that you will do this but while having sex, just go nuts and freak out, moaning as loudly as you can and hopefully, this will switch on freaky frenzy for your partner too.

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Get super freaky and get into a ‘freaky frenzy’. It works magic! Photo by Alexander Krivitskiy on Unsplash

Ladies are especially in a good place to do this. If you guide your partner to do something in a certain way, then they’ll likely go with the flow or ask if you are okay with it. If they do, say yes immediately and keep on guiding them on how to do it. This method works.