The Sex Diaries #1: How to Know What You Like During Sex
Perhaps the first thing you should ask yourself before engaging in sexual activity and opening yourself up, quite literally, to love and sex, is finding out what you like during sex.
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Welcome to 'The Sex Diaries', a series about sex where we'll be discussing matters relating to sex and how to ultimately live a better sex life both physically, spiritually, and emotionally. For The Sex Diaries #1, we'll look into how to know what you like during sex.
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How to Know What You Like During Sex
Perhaps the first thing you should ask yourself before engaging in sexual activity and opening yourself up, quite literally, to love and sex, is finding out what you like during sex. This question came up after watching a documentary by DW that looked into Sex and Ageing. You can watch it below.
In the video, one of the women says that she discovered what she likes during sex past her forties. I thought that was quite unfortunate as it means that she missed out on more than 4 decades of pure blissful sex. The Sex Diaries, therefore, is my attempt to help you avoid that. Be sure to watch the documentary for context and it is courtesy of DW.
Finding Yourself Emotionally First
Nobody teaches you this but the very first thing you need to do before activating your sex life is to go through the fodder of your emotions and resolve any issues that may be therein. For instance, maybe you have trust issues and cannot emotionally let someone in. In this case, you will not be able to enjoy blissful and emotionally open, and trusting sex if you don't deal with your emotional issues.
